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Hello. - Hi, it's Eve. I can't come today.
Why not? - It depresses me.
Basic research work can't depress anyone. Damn it!
I've started looking at people for things that always go wrong.
Why didn't you say anything? I need someone to help.
I didn't want you to get mad.
My therapist said I'm becoming too aware of everything.
The whole idea of therapy is to become aware.
My own life is awful, too.
Will you give me your phone number?
I haven't been flashing it around.
I mean my number. I don't believe in all that.
In what? - Exchanging numbers and going out together.
Getting married, reproducing and aging together.
I was thinking more like coffee or something.
One night, good memories. Bye-bye!
Hello. Please send a taxi to...
Hold on... Hold on...
Building 15, and the street is...
Actually I won't be needing a taxi. Thank you.
Weather warnings to follow.
The cold front will bring a chance of showers.
The baggage train followed. Mother and father...
The home team versus the away team: 2 - 1.
In women's baseball...
The wedding bells are ringing for celebration fair
The wedding bells are ringing, but the groom isn't there
With her gown flowing, the bride sheds a tear...
What is it?
Was it someone you knew I woke up with? - Who?
The one with a round head. He lives nearby.
When I left, you were kissing a dark thin guy with curly hair.
Oh yeah, him. He was wonderful.
But this wasn't him. I wonder what happened.
Oh honey, what you're doing is actually dangerous.
Anything can happen when you lose control like that.
On the other hand, nothing ever happened, if I didn't.
Will you help me with a wedding? My assistant stood me up.
Incredible.
My today's radio prediction ended with wedding bells ringing.
It was really interesting.
A cold front with showers, a baggage train that follows -
and then the home team wins the away team 2 - 1.
It's perfectly obvious.
First someone will move in with me.
Home team means setting up a home.
Then 2 - 1: two becomes one.
On top of that there are the wedding bells. - Right.
Congratulations in advance.
Wait.
Eero! Eero, stop it!
You have no right to come here.
Get lost!
You shouldn't let it grow like this. It ruins the whole lawn.
Oh dear. Is my dress okay? Don't jump like that.
Keep your hands to yourself.
Sami. - So, judgement day.
What's the best thing about your spouse?
She irons my socks, and shaves my beard.
Once when I'd had a night out, -
and was a little tired, she even brushed my teeth.
Motherly, I would say.
That's the word that comes in mind.
There's some old stuff here. - She makes my lunch, and...
I'll get you a new memory card.
She's like Scully, so I'm Mulder. - Are they for real?
Yes, they are.
3. Treat your spouse like a child
Sorry if it shook you up.
Can you drive? - I guess I'll have to.
Don't go out on your own. You can't manage without me.
Look who's talking. You wouldn't even stay alive without me.
God damn it.
What's your problem? We have to go. - What's the rush?
We have to work. What is it? - I have to talk to you.
Why don't you call me? - You never answer your phone.
Isn't it funny she complains like a teenager?
Your father mowed my lawn this morning.
So, it's important. - Last week he washed my car at night.
It's so perverted. In the spring he washed all my windows.
I wish someone washed mine. - It's awful. I can't live my life.
Make your father understand I'm getting a restraining order -
if he keeps it up after I'm married.
Married? - Yes. Pena and I are getting married.
Can it be here?
I think so. - Are you sure?
It must be near. Please reverse. - That's so romantic.
Reverse.
Hello. Is this the wedding of Henna and Lauri? - Supposed to.
We agreed about an interview before the ceremony.
Sanna Manner. Are you the best man?
No, I'm Lauri. The groom.
Oh, right.
It's great that you agreed to this. - The bride and groom are here.
Aino, this is the groom. The wedding car is coming!
Hi, darling. - Hi.
Don't look like that. This is what people are like.
What took you so long?
Can I say that Lauri is sexy? - Yes.
I'm just no longer interested in any other men.
5. Lie
I think we'll have our first baby right away -
since Henna's maternity benefit is based on last year's income, -
and Henna's income was better last year.
A year from now Henna is probably home with the baby, -
and I keep working in the bank.
11. Make decisions for your partner
Problems? Basic stuff, I guess, -
like doing things in a certain way.
For instance, Lauri insists that when you make coffee -
you have to first wet the filter. Have you heard about that?
I don't insist... - Sure you do.
Before you put in the grounds, you have to first wet the filter.
4. Control
1. Be blind
Be blind, control or make decisions for your partner.
Some very common ways to ruin your marriage.
I call them secondary causes, and they occur often very soon.
Then there are primary causes, -
such as lie, cheat or develop a substance abuse problem.
They are the ones that tend to finally lead to a divorce.
They can occur independently, -
or as a reaction to a secondary cause.
Why do people let you come to their wedding?
They think they are an exception.
"Divorce is a natural and probable consequence of falling in love."
Page 62 on my master's thesis. You'll find it in the library.
What about the people who won't divorce? Who are they?
I think those couples think of marriage as an agreement.
We all know that in the countries where marriages are arranged -
they are much more certain to last than our love marriages.
According to surveys on marital happiness -
couples here are initially happier, -
but by the seventh year arranged marriages are happier.
It's exactly the expectation of romantic love in a relationship -
that is the root of most problems.
But I can show something positive, too.
How has your year been? - It's been a pretty good year.
We have a system for taking care of the kids.
We take turns evenly once we know when Aleksi has work.
The person whose turn it is will take care of practical things -
and look after the kids. The other one has free time.
How about your time together? Do you work for the relationship?
Like having spa weekends?
I don't see a real need for candlelit dinners.
When we are doing well as individuals, -
we also feel happy.
That's awful. What's the point, if they want to be alone?
They are a team.
They have their own tasks and they need each other.
However, that's all for today.
Is anyone interested in the assistant's job?
There are a lot of weddings during summer weekends, -
but the follow-ups are mostly on weekdays.
I'm really interested, but I'll have to check with my wife.
Beep, beep, beep. Number 10: "Don't make up your own mind."
Isn't it normal to take your spouse into account?
It's not serious, it was only a secondary one.
My wife works shifts, -
and she doesn't like it if I'm never there when she's off.
You have work. Does she ask for your permission for night shifts?
Of course not. - See?
Informing is different from asking for permission.
Okay. I'll do the job. Without asking her.
19. Be possessive
8. Don't be present
2. Be clingy
Put the third cup away. This is getting ridiculous.
What if today is the day your mother comes back home?
With no cup on the table she'd think she's been forgotten.
Father, dear. That day won't come. - You don't know that.
We see each other a lot nowadays. Eila needs me.
She has a lot of work taking care of that home of hers.
She isn't alone. Pena has been there for almost a year.
Dear father, please sit down. Sit down, father!
An oven like this has to be kept clean so the dirt won't stick.
Listen to me. Mother is getting married with Pena.
She isn't coming back. If you go there again, she'll call the police.
You have to stop stalking her, and start living your own life.
Think about everything wonderful that may yet happen to you.
They'd have had it much easier if they'd never married.
Then you wouldn't exist.
You are eternal proof of the love they had.
I will probably die someday.
Yeah, of course, -
but before that your love will manifest itself in your children, -
and their love in their children.
Yeah, but I won't have children. - I need a baby prediction.
It's a crime that a woman in her thirties -
with the ability to create life hasn't done it.
"Passion Fruit Surprise."
It's totally obvious. "Passionate" feelings, -
"surprise" means a surprise baby, -
which would be the best thing in the whole world, -
and finally the "fruit", which means fertility.
Okay. So you make cookbook predictions now?
Of course. The universe is speaking to us from everywhere.
Oh God. - Now it's your turn.
No. - Sure.
I don't wanna. - Look me in the eye.
For real.
"Quick Curls." - Okay. I take it back.
You can make very accurate predictions from a cookbook.
"Work a large bar of chocolate at room temperature..."
I'm more than happy to do so at the earliest opportunity.
It's interesting, your fear of love.
What was the last time you had love? - Last weekend.
Sober and sincerely? - I don't fall in love sober.
That's not falling in love.
Then maybe I have never been in love.
Does it make me a bad person? - No.
But love might make you a better one.
Aleksi, here!
Hi. - Hi.
This is Aleksi from work. Introduce yourselves.
Nice timing. We are having cake.
Oh, hello. - Hi.
Now, quick. Blow them out!
So, what did you wish for?
A child. And a man.
In that order? - Any order, as long as it's quick.
Aleksi and his wife are the healthiest couple I'm studying.
They have the proper attitude.
You didn't hear they divorced?
What? - That's the reason Aleksi changed jobs.
Because of the kids he couldn't work shifts in the ambulance, -
and we have always positions open.
Are you sure? - Of course I'm sure.
He's talked about it for the last three months.
That's terrible. And you said nothing.
How could I have known he was the one in your study?
Last fall their marriage was really great.
It's not any longer.
The wife "blossomed". - What?
Yeah, with another man.
She rediscovered her feminity -
once the kids were no longer babies.
That's terrible.
So, do you two have something going on? - No.
I guess we might, but he has the children.
I want my first child to be the first for the father, too.
If my principles are strange, so are yours.
May I join you? - Yeah, of course.
It really, really sucks what happened.
What's that? - Your divorce. Aino told me.
She wasn't actually gossiping, -
but when I told about my research on marriages...
She told ours didn't work any more.
So, why did you... Or did she... If you don't mind me asking.
Shouldn't you be the expert? - But you had no problems.
We were never together.
But in agrarian societies couples weren't together either.
They did their own tasks in order to survive.
That need created the life-long bond. - Right.
That is why there are divorces.
People get married because of love alone, which is unnatural.
Then they end it.
I'm sure you haven't botched any of your own relationships.
Sure I have. Well, not any more, since I know how to avoid it.
How?
Well, sex isn't a part of friendship and cooperation.
Sex happens separately and just once with anyone.
It works well, and there is no emotional mess.
Right.
Will you come to my place?
So we can talk about it some more.
Would you like to see some of those videos?
With you? Now? - Yes.
It might be therapeutic.
Do you watch them often by yourself?
Repeatedly. You get new ideas from the positions, for instance.
I always thought porn was a guy-thing...
People respect someone like Mannerheim.
You can't say you respect somebody...
It will escalate from here. Keep watching, I'll come back.
Maybe when she is sleeping or diving, so that she's quiet.
Why won't you stop talking and actually do something?
Get us a fucking apartment, so we'll have our own rooms.
She talks even when she sleeps.
Thanks for this, but I really have to go. I have work tomorrow.
I think you should take your clothes off.
Good morning. I didn't want to wake you up -
since I have to go home before work.
I don't know if this was a good idea, -
but we are both single, so I guess it was all right.
Have a nice day, and thank you. Aleksi.
Department of Forensic Medicine
Good morning. - Good morning.
The day's first one is a floater.
How long did it soak? - Three weeks.
Naturally. They always come up when you have a hangover.
Thanks for yesterday, by the way. - No problem.
How was the afterparty?
I've never met a woman so direct.
Wasn't it just fun? - In a way.
Please stop mushing it on a bloated floater day.
So, we haven't spent that much time together.
Mari gained quite a few extra kilos last year.
I'm not sure how to take it.
It's a shame that when it comes to marriage -
there is no consumer protection if the product turns out inferior.
Look at what has popped up, although I didn't order one.
12. Humiliate
If the grandparents visit, we may go to a movie with Johanna, -
but we won't always see the same movie, -
because you don't have to give up your own wishes.
I prefer action flicks myself.
Hello. I'd like the address of an Aleksi Sepänniitty.
Aleksi. Sepänniitty.
No way. - Yes way.
No way. - Absolutely.
Coffee soft and strong
Are you a robber?
Of course I'm not a robber.
Then why do you peek through our windows?
I didn't. My shoe is just loose, so I was adjusting it.
Sanna.
Sanna!
Didn't you hear me?
Hello! - Hi!
I must have water in my ear, from the swimming.
I think that got it.
What are you doing here? Did you come to see me?
No, of course not. - Our home is right there.
Really? I'm doing an interview in the neighbourhood.
I don't remember the address but I have it in an e-mail.
But you know it's here?
Do you remember the name?
Everyone knows each other here. Did they have kids? - Yeah.
No, wait, these ones didn't. I interview so many couples...
Can you get to your e-mail? - Of course.
Why don't you come over and use my computer.
Sandra and Leo, say hi to Sanna. - Hi.
Thanks for the other night. Sorry I had to leave like that.
It's okay. That's what I always do.
Read this for me.
Here it is! Great.
Sandra and Leo, Sanna doesn't have time to read to you now.
I'm sorry, but I really have to go.
Thanks for the coffee. Bye-bye!
She didn't even drink it.
What made you get married? - Love.
Love. Just love.
9. Develop a substance abuse problem
How has your year been?
Wonderful. Just wonderful.
Well, after the wedding Timppa overdid it a bit -
when he celebrated it with the guys for a couple weeks.
So I guess I was pretty pissed off.
Still, how many men celebrate getting married?
When I was pregnant, -
he was often home on Friday or Saturday.
It kind of compensated it.
1. Be blind
Where's the wedding venue?
In Ryttylä. - It's close to Riihimäki.
It's number three. Make sure it'll go to the right place.
I made you sandwiches.
What? - I made you sandwiches.
I just had breakfast.
3. Treat your spouse like a child
Really. Thanks, but I don't need anything.
I really don't.
You could start by transcribing the ones in this folder.
I'm so fucking pissed off.
This is so typical.
He has agreed to come, and is nowhere to be seen.
You get a really good idea about how we are doing.
14. Evade and escape
It's awful how she talks about him. I would never say such things.
You probably shouldn't be watching these.
It's not so dangerous.
If I don't have work sometime, I could come help you for free.
No, you couldn't.
Honey, you forgot your cell phone.
Oh, thanks.
When are you coming home? - I have no idea.
Text me when you do, so I'll have dinner ready.
We'll probably get a meal there.
I'm working night. I'd like us to eat together. - I have work.
Give me a kiss.
2. Be clingy
Take care of my honey-bunny. - Sure.
Should we go?
Yes.
Rather, the Union is creaking at the seams...
It is you whom I love more than anything
With you I'm in heaven on earth
Sanna. - Hi, it's me. We are so going out tonight.
I'm at a wedding. - But you are free tonight. You have to come.
We'll see. - My radio horoscope talked about love.
Last time the wedding bells didn't mean anything.
Sure they did. I was at the wedding.
This time there should be even love.
Has he talked about me? - Who?
That guy, Aleksi.
I hope he didn't think I'm interested, or anything.
No, he knew it was just sex. We actually talked about it.
So, don't worry. But guess what?
I was just at the baby cinema, and it was so cool.
What? Who borrowed you a baby? - No one.
My neighbours went to Thailand, -
so I took their carriage out for a spin.
Without a baby? - Of course, and no one noticed.
I just rocked the carriage and the baby slept.
Hey, I have to go.
All right. I'll come to pick you up tonight.
Bye-bye.
What made you fall in love with each other?
17. Don't talk
It's really hard to say when we first met.
We were in the same class already in elementary school.
We were apart for three years.
It was when we were studying in different towns.
But there weren't really any others -
for either of us, I guess -
since we got back together.
18. Have no respect
I like spending time at the cabin. There's space...
So you don't have to, like, -
see each other.
13. Be reluctant
I feel a bit funny.
We can leave if you feel sick.
We already have the interviews, that's the important part.
I'm not sure if I can do this.
Why? Sure you can.
Not every wedding is like this. This was just...
You can go to the car already.
Thanks.
Elli couldn't take it when we were in separate towns.
She got a job in Helsinki although I didn't ask her to.
She just arrived.
We got engaged, then married. I didn't have the heart to say no.
These flute glasses are so small.
I don't love her. I haven't had time to love anyone else, either.
Darn it, how can it go like this?
Should we get out of the car anyway?
That's how life should be like.
You'd even want to take out the trash together.
I love it if I get to take out the trash without Elli.
You answer. Tell her I'm recording or something.
This is Sanna Manner on Jouni's phone.
Why didn't Jouni answer himself? - Look, we are still working.
Jouni is recording so he can't answer his phone.
There's food in the fridge. Can you tell him? I love him, -
kisses, and tell him to eat. - Sure. Thanks.
Bye-bye! - Have a nice night shift.
Kissy-kiss. There's food in the fridge.
Hi.
Let's go.
I can't go yet. There's an on-going crisis.
My assistant refuses to leave the car. - What's the problem?
Increased awareness.
Today he understood that his marriage sucks.
Have you depressed someone again? - No.
I've met the wife. He is anxious for a reason.
Why don't you go change, and let me take care of him.
Go ahead and try.
Hello. - Hello.
Sorry, may I come in? - Sure.
Have you got another glass? I'm Aino.
Sanna and I are going to a bar, but I might sit here for a bit.
Why don't you take this. I've had my share already.
So, what's the matter?
It'll be confidential. I'm a doctor, you see.
I'm not a psychiatrist. I don't know any head-related stuff.
Or actually I do, but it's about the inside.
I mean the anatomy of the head, -
but I don't know about the emotional things going on.
Right. - But otherwise...
I'm a good listener. Maybe.
With a stethoscope.
What kind of a doctor are you? - I'm only just specialising.
In pathology. But I still have to listen to other things than ears.
...with ears.
No results found for your query
What's worse is that Sanna is right.
"Divorce is a natural and probable consequence of falling in love."
No. Don't you believe her.
Have you ever been in love?
No, I haven't. We started seeing each other in our teens.
How could you tell between lust and emotion?
See? The concept changed already.
Divorce is a natural consequence of getting married without love.
Have you got children? The two of you.
No, we haven't. Fortunately.
But would you like to? I mean the two of you.
No. I mean I don't want children.
She'd be probably a terribly clingy mother, as well.
But do you want children eventually? - Yeah.
Listen. You have nothing to be gloomy about.
If you got married by accident, you can get a divorce -
and still believe in love.
It'd be funny if you won the jackpot on the first try, -
if you know what I mean.
Firearms license
Your aunt... - She lives in Japan.
All right, let's go. - We are in the middle of something.
We can all go. Let's lock the car already.
This may take a minute.
How about you leave the keys on top of the right front tyre.
I'm going somewhere.
Call me when you're free. - I will. Thanks.
9. Develop a substance abuse problem
8. Don't be there
6. Teach and advice
Touch
Listen
Love, love, love
Dad! Why's the fast lady sleeping in here?
Come here and I'll tell you. Let her sleep.
Are you asleep?
Yeah.
She said "yeah" to the question you can't say "yeah" to.
Good morning. Your phone is ringing.
Thank you. - I'll be just over there.
Sanna. - Is Jouni alive?
Jouni who? - My husband. Where's he? Where are you?
What? Yeah. Yeah, of course.
What? - I'm sure he is alive.
That's good. He wasn't at home, and the food was untouched.
Did you tell him about the food? - Yeah.
Hey, I'm sorry.
The thing is, -
my car conked out in front of the wedding venue, -
and we had to spend the night here.
Who are you talking to? - Where are you?
Is it just the two of you? - Of course not.
Is Jouni there?
He went to sleep in the... Some kind of a... - Where?
In the men's wing.
We don't have a men's wing. - Doesn't he have his phone?
He probably left his phone in the car. - Not again!
But everything is fine. I'll tell him to call you soon. - Okay.
Bye-bye. - Bye-bye!
Who was it?
Thank you, and sorry, but I'll have to leave now.
Something came up.
There's coffee if you want.
Sorry, I don't have time, -
but have a nice day and thank you for the coffee.
She's weird.
Hi! This is Aino Elomäki's voicemail...
You have reached Jouni Pirhonen's voicemail...
Come save me from this loneliness. I want U!
No!
Open up. I know you are in there.
Yeah, yeah. Give me a minute.
Good morning.
The owner of the trousers should deal with his own marriage.
I told your wife we spent the night at the wedding venue, -
so don't tell the truth and make me a liar.
Damn it with you two. Grown-ups don't behave like that.
May I have my car keys, please?
Oh yeah, right. We forgot, we were just so...
Good morning. - Jouni, turn on your cell phone right now.
Sanna, honey.
This is the most beautiful morning in my life.
Jouni, put your clothes on. You are my student.
He's definitely not putting any clothes on.
It must be her. Isn't this her number?
Yeah.
Answer it. - No.
I won't either. - I'm tired of talking with her.
If you won't, someone else has to.
And that someone is probably me.
Why don't you deal with your own stuff.
And Jouni, you have to do your work.
Transferring material is the assistant's task, -
but I had to do it while you were whining in the car.
Come and get it right now.
Open up!
Some girl is banging on Sanna's door. - Open the door!
Please listen. Sanna is probably not home.
Usually she hears the doorbell.
She is there. She's stolen my husband!
Open the door or I'll burn the house down!
What did she say? - It's better I won't say.
Will you stop kicking? - Where have you put my husband?
You lied to me. Your car is parked.
Please move. Now go inside to yell.
Where's he? - I don't know.
Did he stay there? With a bridesmaid? - No, but...
Why didn't he call? - I don't know.
You lure innocent husbands to work for you, -
and manipulate them to divorce to get statistics. - Don't be stupid.
What's this, then? The Temptation of Cheating.
No wonder Jouni left you. What you are doing is intolerable.
Nobody normal can take that kind of stalking.
Jouni.
Please don't.
I can't live without Jouni.
I came to pick up the material. I can work at Aino's.
Your wife... - Jouni, darling. Where have you been?
Is that your ex?
What ex am I to you? - Calm down! Calm down!
What is going on in there? - Everything is fine, sorry.
Everyone shut up and go sit in the living room!
Why did you call her here? - I called no one.
She came since he won't take care of things.
Jouni, let's go. I don't like quarrelling.
No one is going anywhere. We will sort this out right now.
Go on, will you.
Who's that woman? She's awfully big.
Jouni, put her on the floor.
Will you stand? My back is hurting. - My legs won't support me.
What is it?
I think it's vomit.
Now you are aware that there has been a falling in love.
How can you be in love, and with someone so big?
You can't fall in love if you're married to me.
They are two completely separate things.
But you love me, right?
Dear, I think I didn't know.
Did you call that maniac "dear"? - He did. There!
I also call my mother a dear. And my sister. - Your sister?
...the winner. It is Jenna, congratulations.
It was a radio prediction, and my interpretation is -
that Jouni and Elli will go home and make decisions.
I really have to sleep.
Will you take the hard drive with you, or will Aino take it?
Better give it to Aino.
What a terrible wife.
I feel terrible.
Where were you? - I'm too tired to talk about it.
Maybe this was for the best.
I'm sure of it.
Dear Aino, Jouni is clearly an evade-and-escape guy, -
I can show you what happens... - Don't spoil this.
What do you mean, spoil? - I don't want your videos.
Don't you get it that I'm in love? - I do.
That's why you should know what can go wrong.
Don't even think about babies.
Hey, I want you to be happy.
You know what?
That is what's different in how we think. - What is?
I don't want to be just happy. I want to cry and quarrel, too.
Here we are.
So, what do you think?
You won't listen anyway. - Sure I do.
That's why I asked you to come.
That looks awful. - Oh well, you've never known about fashion.
By the way, have you heard anything about your father?
I've been just wondering since it's been so quiet.
How did he react to the news? - He was rather upset, of course.
Why?
When I put my rugs out, he has usually picked them up, -
washed them and brought them back clean.
I put them out days ago, and nothing has happened.
Didn't you want him to leave you alone? - It was a tradition.
I don't get you.
I may not love him, but I do care for him.
This is Eero Manner speaking. Leave a message after the signal.
Where are you? I've been trying to reach you.
Mom is worried, too.
Call me right away when you get this.
Hi. - Hi. Sorry I'm late.
It's okay. It's great you could come. - Hi.
Hello there. - Hi.
Why is he here?
I needed Aleksi's help. Jouni has only a few friends because of Elli.
I may even be pregnant already. I thought you'd be happy.
No, it's that I've screwed up. You don't know how bad it is.
Sanna, can you give me a hand? This weighs like sin.
I'd help, but I may be pregnant. - Let's turn the sofa.
I feel so strange. - How?
It's like I'm living a different life.
It's like someone had aired the world. - How's Elli?
She is fine, I think.
When she has stuff going on, she's completely committed.
When she gets over it, she'll find a new one.
I've even wondered if she has some Asperger traits.
They are often missed in women.
That's bullshit!
What the hell?
Let me out of here!
I'm definitely not fine with this.
So, this is your love nest. Tasteless. - My sofa!
Where're the springs? - I knew you were going to talk crap about me.
But trying to diagnose me, -
because you want to try it with some giant, it's too much.
It's my home. - We are still married. I'm not giving up.
Elli, this is Aino's apartment.
Then I'll stay here too. It'll be the three of us.
Perhaps just one night... - Jouni. Number ten.
You and your codes. Shut up, you don't know anything!
And Aino, you know what?
You can't be pregnant, because he can't have children.
Get lost, you goddamn clinger! You've ruined my life.
You've clung on to me since school like a monkey.
Go get a life. Get a hanging bar, -
or climb a tree!
I'm sorry I have that with me. Had.
Is it true what she said?
Sanna, wait. - Yeah?
I'd like to talk about your last... visit.
What about it?
Why did you come? - I don't know. I was drunk.
It was a bit awkward since I had the kids. - I'm sorry.
It's okay.
Do you remember what you said? - Of course.
I remember it pretty well. Maybe I forgot some because I was tired.
Do you remember what you said about your one-night principle?
I probably thought there could be some leeway -
if both of us knew it was just sex.
It's probably better if we won't see each other even casually.
Since the divorce, it's been a bit... - Of course.
We agreed about the follow-up interview...
Oh yeah, that. - But it's a professional thing.
I'll be like a different person. I don't work when I'm drunk.
That will probably make things easier.
Bye. - Bye.
Vilma just started school. - And you go to every meeting.
The teacher has just graduated and she's single.
This year we went to Lisbon and Rome, -
and it really is good for the relationship.
Perhaps we should tell also where you've been without me.
I think there may have been some relationships there, too.
15. Suspect, don't trust
The number you dialled cannot be reached right now.
Hello?
You were the light of my life. You gave me a purpose.
Now that you shine your light towards another man, -
I will take my own life. Without you I am nothing.
I will take my own life... I will remove this empty shell, -
this insignificant creature, wretched thing, from the world.
I will take my own life... I have realised -
that no one will miss or love me.
No one will need me.
I'm sorry. Is Aino Elomäki working? I really need to contact her.
It appears she has the day off.
What is it? Didn't we agree we wouldn't see each other?
I didn't come to see you. It's an actual emergency.
I think my father killed himself.
You realise I cannot let visitors to look at the bodies?
How about you wait outside and I do it myself.
But you don't know him. - Tell me what he looks like.
I may have a photo of him in my phone.
Relax. There was no one similar, or of the same age or size.
Did your father have a lot of unopened mail, -
or did the apartment look like nobody had been there?
I can't remember.
No, there weren't any piles of mail.
I've got to go back and look. - Hey.
Are you okay?
I mean do you want me to come with you?
No, I'll go alone.
I will not go there alone. - How awful.
He has written such a beautiful note, though.
This is all your fault. You've been feeding his delusions.
Your clothes are all over his place.
There's a water glass for you on the bedside.
I'm afraid to go there in case he's hanging somewhere.
I can't go like this. I haven't even washed my hair.
That's the first thing a body will notice.
Always with the drama.
People are responsible for their own suicides.
He's home!
Has he left something cooking? Something is burning.
Hello? - Oh, hello. You must be Sanna.
I am Tiina.
Eero is in the shower. We just came from the shooting range.
That's my apron. - Sorry. I just took it because I'm frying fish.
It isn't for any housemaids. - Calm down, you can have it.
You must be Eila. I'm Tiina.
You are alive. - What are you doing here?
You gave me the key and said I could come back any time.
Well, now you can give it back so Tiina can have her own.
Cleaning ladies don't need a key.
This is Tiina Sirkiä. She's a police officer.
She is the light of my life. - She cannot be.
This letter says that I am the light of your life.
Where did you get this? - I was so worried about you.
You didn't answer your phone, so I came to see you -
and I found that in your printer.
It's an old note, and I haven't been answering the phone -
because there's been love.
I'm sorry, but there are only two zander fillets.
I'm so relieved. - You only think of yourself.
You drag me here to be humiliated in unwashed hair.
Hi.
Well? - We had an argument.
That's great. - It's not what I want.
But you said you want to quarrel and cry sometimes.
I don't want us to be a quarrelling couple.
I want something like that.
Now I know why he has always such a funny haircut.
She's almost blind, and he can't hear anything.
Would you like a beer or a cider?
Maybe just tea, thanks. Just in case I'm pregnant anyway.
If they tried for a baby for years, and have been examined, -
you shouldn't torment yourself.
He said I don't accept him just as he is, -
but I don't know how he is, if he lies to me.
Without Elli, I'd have probably never known.
But does it matter?
You know...
Today I saw my gloomy dad bursting with happiness -
with his shooting trainer.
And I thought, -
whether it lasts one day or the rest of your life, -
being in love has its value.
It's wonderful to hear you say that.
I'm doing us a decisive radio prediction.
There are many games before the finals. How do you feel?
We feel good. We have played well so far -
and unless there're injuries, we can keep it up.
Can we manage it in an hour? My mother has the kids.
Yeah, an hour should do.
All right, then.
What's exceptional about you as a couple -
is that it is often easy to see what is going to go wrong, -
but I saw no obvious cause for your divorce.
But we were a completely loveless couple.
Maybe in your mind.
No wonder others didn't see it, because neither did I.
You never showed your love, or told me.
I always thought of you first.
You got time off. I did the chores and took care of the kids.
You did your job. Sure.
People do their job also at work, -
but relationship is no job.
Aleksi, what do you think was the reason for your divorce?
Johanna cheated on me.
Would I have cheated if the relationship worked?
I'm talking to Aleksi. What do you think caused the cheating?
I don't know.
Maybe it was something essential. Maybe I was bad in bed.
You weren't.
I mean that it's never been the cause in any of my research.
When people get married, they already know how the sex is.
All right, then.
Perhaps we'll watch some of the video clips.
Do you have them prepared? I'll start the video.
Let's see how it looks in retrospect.
Aleksi is very smart, and I can talk to him about anything.
He's also very skilful. He can do a lot of things with his hands.
He has a great sense of humour, or similar to mine, anyway.
It's about the same things with Johanna.
In addition, she is very beautiful.
And I don't mean only what you can see here, -
but also what you cannot see.
What school grade would you give for your first year?
How could it be less than A+ if he's massaging my feet?
Yeah, like this.
It's an "A" from me too.
But A- for now. When the baby comes...
I feel so privileged. Aleksi is helping so much.
There're three nights a week when if Leo wakes up, -
Aleksi will bring him to me and I can go back to sleep.
Well, it's the least I can do. He needs you all the time.
Johanna, what in the videos might hint towards the divorce?
I don't know.
I remember a bit of how I felt, -
but somehow it all seems so practical.
We are just doing our thing in that moment.
Yes, but that's what love is all about.
It's all so incredibly wonderful.
I think I know what's wonderful and what isn't.
Well, what would you have asked?
Is your new partner so special?
Do I keep recording, or is this more of a private conversation?
Of course it isn't. This is an important issue.
Every day, he says he loves me.
That I'm beautiful and he wants me.
He surprises me often, -
and we plan a lot of things together. Maybe that's it.
We put effort into our relationship.
Oh dear.
There's one clip we're going to watch.
I don't see a real need for candlelit dinners.
When we are doing well as individuals, -
we also feel happy.
This is where you say you don't want to put effort into it.
Yes. I didn't, not any longer.
Or maybe I thought it wasn't important.
Since then I've changed my mind. - Aleksi?
I guess that's it.
I didn't know I should've put effort into it.
Hi.
Why's the funny lady here again?
Thank you so much, this was very interesting.
I got some new perspectives. We'll be on our way, -
so that you can go home with the kids.
Thank you again for everything. Thanks for coffee. Bye now.
She said it again!
20. Don't put effort...
Don't go out on your own. You can't manage without me.
Look who's talking. You wouldn't even stay alive without me.
Aleksi. - Hi, it's Sanna. I'm sorry about the hour, -
but I think I left the transfer cable there -
and I'd really need it. - Yeah, I found it.
Do you think you could bring it to me?
The front door is locked. - Of course it is. Sorry.
Have you had a drink, or why couldn't you come?
No, I haven't.
You can have the cable when you tell me why.
What do you mean, why? - Why did I have to come?
I wanted to see you. Here.
Did you think today was awful?
Yes.
But good as well.
I guess. I don't know.
What is it that you want from me?
I don't know.
Company.
Your wife was wrong about so many things.
So, I'm not bad in bed? - You aren't!
Other things, too.
I think you were the best man by far.
I mean as a man, in a relationship, -
of anyone I've seen, and I've seen a lot.
Are you sure you are sober?
It's starting to sound like what you said when you were drunk.
I have no recollection of what I said.
Could you tell me?
You said the same thing.
That I'm the best man you've seen, -
and then you said you're in love with me.
And that you don't care whether it'll last or not -
and that for the first time in your life you feel -
that you might commit, raise a family and grow old together.
And other things. - Oh dear.
So, what do you think?
The sober you has been pretty attractive.
But I don't know you at all.
Would you like to?
Why else would I be here?
Can't you sleep?
I thought of something.
Number twenty-one?
It may ruin everything even before it begins.
I don't think anyone can do all of that.
Yeah.
I guess that's my point.
21. Don't dare to love
21. Dare to love
How long does this take?
Translation: Jukka Sorsa / Pre-Text Oy
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